The truth is that many teens wish at some time that they had never been born. The best parents in the world may not be able to prevent such thoughts from entering the minds of their children at least once or twice.
No matter how healthy your children are, you need to pay special attention anytime they express feelings of hopelessness or worthlessness.
Here are the statistics that all parents need to know about teen suicide:
- Thousands of teens commit suicide every year in the United States.
- Among 5 to 14-year-olds, suicide is the No. 6 cause of death.
- Among 15 to 24-year-olds, suicide is the No. 3 cause of death.
The difference between a statistic and a tragedy is how close it comes to your door. Statistics happen in other people’s lives. When it happens in your own family, it’s a tragedy.
The world is a more dangerous place for teens today than it was when their parents were growing up. Television and the Internet have let the wolf in the door—literally.
As parents, we have a moral, social, and God-given duty to protect our children from the type of influences that poison their minds in the name of ratings.
All parents need to know the warning signs of teen suicide. If your teen expresses feelings of worthlessness, suddenly gets rid of cherished possessions, or has hallucinations, talk to your child at once.
Be alert to the following warning signs of teen suicide:
- A sudden loss of interest in valued relationships and activities.
- Violent or rebellious behavior, such as running away from home.
- A sudden and unusual lack of interest in personal appearance.
- A visible and abrupt change in personality.
- A sharp drop in school performance, accompanied by constant apathy.
- Signs of alcohol or drug use.
- A drastic change in sleeping or eating habits.
- Spending an inordinate amount of time online.
Never treat a threat of suicide as child’s play or manipulation, they aren’t just trying to get attention. Teens often give clear warning sings before attempting suicide.
Comments such as “I won’t be causing anybody any more problems for much longer” should alert parents to the need for immediate action.
If your teen ever talks about wanting to commit suicide, seek professional help at once. Whatever your child’s motivations may be, the fact that he or she is talking to you is a good sign. Find out what the real problem is by visiting a professional counselor.
Don’t let the statistics turn into a tragedy in your life. Even if you think your child is trying to manipulate you or control a relationship with threats of suicide, get professional help immediately. Your child is screaming for it.
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